Crisis is a natural occurrence in human life: before
each step we take there must come imbalance 
first to help us to allow the change.

Crisis IS good. It only means that:
A) you have to move ON (allow the change),
B) you are ready and fully prepared to do so. 

Seize the opportunity & take responsibility!
Unleash / experience the “next level” of you!


THE Human


Steve’s model is an evolution of The Hero’s Journey.

Life really is game… an infinite one in fact. Out of challenges come experiences, out of experiences we have learnings that we can capitalize on (and enjoy the benefits of), until the next challenge occurs. Suffering comes from our desire for a safe harbor, to settle down, to take control, to reduce risks, to stop changing – suffering comes from the illusion (arrogance) that we could control life, that we could quit the game.

The secret to happiness is to play on!

Steve’s unique framework for making sense of life‘s seeming chaos is “The Human Journey” (a.k.a. “The Map of Life”), that is a much more detailed and corrected version of “The Hero’s Journey”. It is based on repeating patterns from his 10+ years of consulting experience. In his words: “I have helped over a thousand people in crisis with over a thousand individual stories, and have yet to see an exemption from the milestones”

who is

steve joos

I am just a man.
Who f…. up, royally.
That is all there is to me.

My whole life – a successful .com business, balanced personal life, good family relationships – came crushing down 20 years ago, and I was not prepared, and I did not understand what was happening to me, and I had nowhere to go. Took me 10 years to stand up & find meaning in all the seeming madness.

So now I can help you.
So now I want to help you.

I want to help as many people as possible to (1) better understand the natural transformation that is happening to all of us in our 30s and 40s, (2) to not be alone with it, and thus (3) solve it faster.

I am a man on a Mission.

Depression, burnout, anxiety, relationship crisis, loneliness, internet addiction, gaming, alcohol and porn – I did it all, and they all just turned out to be symptoms of the ONE challenge I was not facing. The same challenge that is coming for everybody. Who are you? Who are you really?

A better life awaits.
If only you can let go of the old. 

In order to fly we first have to fall to pick up speed.

A New You will rise from the abyss!
With purpose & power.
I promise.


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membership community
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25+ working

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Humania seeks to unleash the vast reserves of human life experiences like Airbnb accessed private beds.

The goal is to fight loneliness, isolation and disconnection, as well as overcome filter bubbles resulting from selfish incentive structures of existing social networks (vanity, greed, pride, lust) that is fueling poses, one sidedness, dishonesty & lies about our life. The goal is to fix social motivation = heavily incentivize people to be their best self.

Humania is the Platform to build Mentor Networks. That is a marketplace where you can access other people’s life experiences, and monetize your own.

Imagine a Facebook where instead of “Like” we have “Thanks”, and pressing the button also launches a micro-transaction rewarding the other person for what he or she has shared. Instead of “Follow” imagine “Trust”. Imagine direct messaging where you can set your own criteria for access (channel, time, money). Imagine a public square where you are strongly incentivized by monetary rewards to share bravely about topics that are of real value to others.

Imagine a Massively Multiplayer Role Playing Game where the role we are all incentivized to play is being our best self. Imagine a social network with the sole objective of helping people to solve challenges by sharing experiences.

Humania is social networking done right.

On the surface we are a “mentor network platform”, but the real goal is to incentivize people to honestly embrace the true nature of the human condition that is imperfection. Honesty about our challenges, limitations & passions, speaking the truth, radical transparency, brave risk taking in being our true self, exemplary vulnerability will be key to success with us. 

The goal is to monetarily incentivize people to help each other with their experiences & ideas.

The need for Humania rose from 13 years of community building experience. Humania is the infrastructure Steve’s own community also needs to realize its potential. 


Steve wrote


On midlife crisis, burnout, breakdowndepression, marital calamitiesaddictions transformation (!), that in fact is A) natural occurrence, B) the greatest single opportunity in our life, for not less but MORE happiness, C) only a result of our own postponing changes that we should have allowed.




The Human Journey model can and should be used as a personal development tool. Steve & Co. put 7 years of development work into perfecting the EgoYoga method, that is “The Art of Traversing The Journey”. They identified 5 big milestones, that divide the human life experience into a journey of 6 stages within three big epochs. He and his team developed laser focused courses and launched a membership community to help EgoYoga practitioners better understand and faster reach the milestones one has to hit in life to obtain & ensure lasting happiness amid constantly changing circumstances. 

STEVE Founded

online Academy

Steve’s online courses consist of thorough explanations of the stages of the Journey (to better understand the challenge one is facing) and detailed instructions on specific actions (to effect change and thus reach resolution). The courses focus on career as well as relationship challenges, and hundreds of people prove them valuable. The online courses are complemented by Zoom workshops to also provide peer support and experience based personal advice, from a facilitator who has already solved similar situation.

STEVE launched


Regular group meetings for channelling life experiences of the more experienced individuals to the bold new generations have served humanity well for millennia. We strongly believe that having a support group is a prerequisite for the well functioning individual, thus lasting social balance in general. Steve launched a members only community for experience based sharing. Our ONE rule is: only comment with your experiences, in your opinions and speculations we are not interested. Within this Enakademia Community we empower average but experienced people to launch support groups for others in topics they had already solved. The Enakademia Community nurtures a growing number of Woman’s Circles as well as an evolving Club for Man. On Zoom and in real life as well.


500+ videos

The EgoYoga approach was so new, and questions so many that instead of replying everybody  one by one in writing it seemed easier for Steve to occasionally make 10-20 min. video responses. Facebook Live was new. The first video appeared on Nov 14, 2015 – and more than 500 have followed since. Much experience has been shared.


occasional newsletter, whenever there is something important to say


Steve hosts live Zoom sessions for the whole of his community, these 1 hour discussions are then published as podcasts.


Steve’s Hungarian channel has several million views, but the English one he only just started. Only a few videos have been uploaded. It is more like an experiment. For now.

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A movement is a community with a purpose. 

It is scary to launch a community, and it is scary to lead one. Because many people imagine nefarious aims behind your purpose, or label you wrongly – very few people accept it to be what it really is: a bunch of people around a shared belief. 

I never intended to start a movement. In fact I was trying to avoid doing so for most of the last 10 years. And yet, despite my best efforts: 

A community was born.
A movement is afoot.
So I had to step up.

Our community is for the few. The few who see reason in our conviction (backed by evidence of life stories of over 1000 members) that the human life is in fact a journey. A journey with a beginning (that is the same for all of us) and an end (that is unique to everybody, and greatly depends on the work you put in your life). In order to live a happy life: effort is needed – the right kind of effort is needed.

Our Community is for people walking the walk. It all starts with an evaluation of your current position (we pin you on the Human Journey map), and then we help you put in the work needed to reach the next milestone. Again, and again, and again. 

Life IS a game.

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sharing their experiences