MASTER
YOUR SELF
I wanted-tried-posed to be „Perfect” for 30
long years. It resulted in loneliness and pain.
Eventually I had to give up.
Thus I discovered that…
1. BEING IMPERFECT IS IRRESISTIBLE – it
moves other people and the world to
fulfill my lacking & desires swiftly.
2. SUFFERING IS GOOD – a grace of God
in fact, as it always points to timely
change we reject/resent/delay.
3. ROOT CAUSE OF ALL PAIN IS
OBSOLETE WORLDVIEW – that is easy
to fix by relying on others’ experiences.
4. THE PRODIGAL STORY IS TRUE – it is
the story of the rational-individualistic
modern person & we can help each other!
Dare to be imperfect!
Stop posing & instead:
Accept & Show Your Self!
I am happy to help.
THE MAP
UNDERSTAND your situation, and MOVE ON!
The NEXT LEVEL OF YOU awaits & IS WORTH the Fight!
BACKGROUND:
BASED ON
EXPEREINCE
Steve’s „Map of Life for the Human Journey” is based on his 20+ years of experience helping people cope with crisis – he observed the same milestones in hundreds of human stories.
Life really is a game in his view… an infinite one in fact. Out of challenges come experiences, out of experiences learnings that we can capitalise on (and enjoy the benefits of), until the next challenge occurs. Suffering results from our desire for a safe harbour, to settle down, take control, reduce risks, stop changing – suffering results from the illusion (arrogance) that we could control life, that we could quit the game. Secret to happiness is to Play On to reach higher and higher evolution!
“I have helped over a thousand people in crisis, and have yet to see an exemption from these milestones.”
SIMPLIFIED
VERSION
First version of the map (see above) was published in 2015, but it was too much for most people. Thus in 2020 Steve came up with a more simplified version, that resembles „The Hero’s Journey„
This simplified version:
1. merges the 6 sections of the original map into 3 big stages,
2. shows the mid-life transformation as a great depth where one needs to integrate desires / face „The Shadow of the Soul”,
3. has separate versions for the Man’s Journey, the Woman’s Journey, as well as Worldview and Faith Evolution,
It has proven to be much more accessible / inviting for people to embark on the inner Journey.
PRODIGAL
version
Steve’s experience (thus conviction) is that in our individualistic age it is inevitable for most people to fall into the trap of self-centredness, that is self-love, that is the wrong kind of love – before a person can find Meaning in the Right kind of Love.
He came to the conclusion, that (1) people of our age can not be saved from their desires, but instead (2) one can help them embrace their personal Hell, in order to (3) faster reach the turning pont of the Prodigal Son. Hence latest version of the map. [painting by Bosch, icon by Jonathan Pageau]
BASED ON THIS, STEVE:
20 years
EXPERIENCE
After discovering his own imperfection Steve was moved to help others – he has been dealing with relationship and/or career crisis for 20 years, helped several hundred people, has intimate knowledge of over 1000 stories.
It is his belief, that
There is no such thing as a relationship or a career crisis – instead these are always just results of faulty expectations rooted in faulty (obsolete) beliefs about what Life is.
The root cause of our troubles is always our Relationship with the World, that is based on our view of the world. Our beliefs about what the world is define who we are, what we do with our life.
Solution is Worldview Evolution. Truer Beliefs result in Better Connections – lead to finding the Unique Way I can be useful.
People who do not feel useful can not have a happy relationship or a fulfilling career… does not matter how much money they make.
Crisis means that:
(1) I am clinging to beliefs that are obsolete,
(2) I have to move ON, and allow a New Me,
(3) I am ready and fully prepared to do so.
Crisis helps us change. Before each step: there must come imbalance first, to help us allow the change that is timely.
Crisisis not a bug but a feature of our life – a help from God in fact, that we should attend to and cherish.
CRISIS IS GOOD – a Grace of God in fact that is a Call of our future Best Self to: (1) start being honest about being imperfect, (2) confess our need for other people, (3) embark on a Journey to discover the right relation to other people, ourselves and the the Creator.
BASED ON THIS, STEVE:
wrote
TWO BOOKS
On midlife crisis, burnout, breakdown, depression, marital calamities, addictions transformation (!), that in fact is A) natural occurrence, B) the greatest single opportunity in our life, for not less but MORE happiness, that happens C) as a result of us resisting changes that we should have allowed and embraced.
“In order to fly we first have to fall to pick up speed. A New You will rise from the abyss – with Power & Purpose… I promise.”
DEVELOPED
EGO MASTERY
The Human Journey model can and should be used for personal development. Steve & Co. put 9 years of development work into perfecting the Ego Mastery method, that is “The Art of Traversing The Journey”. They identified 12 milestones, that divide the human life experience into a Journey of 12 stages within six sections within three big epochs. They developed online courses and started a Community to help practitioners better understand and faster reach the common milestones to obtain & ensure happiness amid constantly changing circumstances.
Founded
Academy
Steve & Co.’s online courses consist of thorough explanations of the stages of the Journey (to better understand the challenge one is facing) and detailed instructions on specific actions (to effect change and thus reach resolution). The courses focus on career as well as relationship challenges, and hundreds of people prove them valuable. The online courses are complemented by IRL workshops to also provide peer support and experience based personal advice.
LAUNCHED
COMMUNITY
More experienced people helping the less experienced with their life experiences has served humanity well for millennia.
We strongly believe that a well functioning social fabric is prerequisite for the well functioning individual, thus lasting social balance and a healthy society in general.
We empower people to launch groups for helping others with their life experiences. Our community features a growing number of Woman’s Circles as well as a Club for Man.
Our ONE rule for all our groups is: „Say what you have experienced – otherwise shut up!”
MADE
1000+ videos
The Map was so new, and questions so many that instead of replying everybody one by one in writing it was easier for Steve to occasionally make 10-20 min. video responses. Facebook Live was new. The first video appeared on Nov 14, 2015 – and more than 1000 have followed since. Much experience has been shared.
started A
STARTUP
Humania – on the surface – is a Market Network for Life Experiences, that is a revolutionary new Gamified Social Network for Connecting New People You Should Know around shared experiences.
While on a deeper level:
Humania is a paradigm shift in social networking to help people (1) overcome loneliness by brave honesty about being imperfect, (2) advance on the Prodigal Son’s Journey, (3) find their Place in Life, (4) further the Creation with their talents.
You can think of Humania as a massively multiplayer social game – The Game of Life for advancing the Brotherhood of Man.
We incentivize people to share life experiences in order to connect Elders, Mentors, Romantic Relations, New Friends, Community… and/or to Help Others… and/or to Make Money.
Loneliness is a great challenge of our age – we think that it is not the people who are the problem, but the rules (incentive structures) of the social games they play, a.k.a Facebook & Co.
Humania is a better game, that is a New Life Incubator.
We incorporated in Delaware, raised 50K from our early users in a crowd-funding campaign, launched our MVP end of 2024, are learning and iterating since. We have early revenue. Next step is Seed Round for Product Development in Q4 2025.
INITIATED A
MOVEMENT
Human isolation is one of the great challenges of our age. Be a part of the solution, help build a connected future – offer your attention to strangers, the world needs your experience!
We think that it is not the people, who are the problem, but the rules of the social games they play. People are lured into “free” games that rewards poses, one sidedness, dishonesty and lies about our life. While their attention is being manipulated and sold to advertisers.
Humania is a better game.
1. Be Accessible! – your experiences & knowledge have instant value to other people who now have similar challenges to what you have already solved, be there for them, it is gratifying to help
2. Empower Mentees! – mentor the mentors who can help many more people than you could on your own, our service is also well suited for individuals with large follwing and apprentices.
3. Make Money! – you can offer your experiences for free, or ask for money. Decide your preferred channel (Zoom or messaging or combined), make mentoring packages, set the price!
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OUR MISSION IS TO CONNECT HUMANITY BY EMPOWERING PEOPLE TO OFFER THEIR ATTENTION TO STRANGERS EASILY & SAFELY.
our MVP moved
STRANGERS
to show experiences & ask advice
ABOUT
STEVE
I. Life of Contradictions
I was born into the old elites of the dead world of feudalism – grew up in the worst possible neighborhood of socialist Budapest, with a family maid – have amazing talent to lead and for managing wealth in a time when we were stripped of all wealth to manage – studied history and went to law school, yet dropped out to build my .COM company at age 24 – lived and could have stayed in the US, but could not grow roots there – am from Hungary but resent the provincialism of the local environment – built a market leading eCMS software and later a favors marketplace that scaled to several countries, yet became an expert in helping people in crisis – developed a personal development method, that most people don’t understand – have a large following who think I am a guru, because they do not really see me – consider myself a social innovator, a term nobody uses – do see the future and was proven right several times, yet find it hard to convince my contemporaries – am now building a truly global platform for connecting people from the fringes of the fringes of the Western World Order, that is Hungary in relationship to the EU to the US.
II. Personal Mission
I want to help as many people as possible to (1) better understand the human journey, (2) cope with natural transformation that is happening to all of us mid-life: the Quest for Meaning, (3) empower people to show their real self honestly, and (4) be available for others with their experiences, so that (5) humanity can gradually reconnect, and be a Brotherhood eventually.
III. Message
Depression, burnout, anxiety, relationship crisis, loneliness, addiction, alcohol and porn – I did it all, and they all turned out to be symptoms of the ONE challenge I was not facing:
Who am I?
Who am I really?
A better life awaits.
If only we let go of the old.
Have courage – you CAN do this!
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Steve embarked on making English language content several times in the past decade – until he realized that AI will translate his catalog into not just English, but all languages within 1-2 years.
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